When facing extortion, stall the blackmailer, and keep stalling.
They want you scared.
They want you moving fast.
They want you paying before you have time to think.
Your first job is to slow everything down.
Do Blackmailers Actually Follow Through?
Some blackmailers follow through, but many rely on fear rather than exposure. Their goal is usually money. Once they release the information, they lose the leverage they were using to demand payment.
That does not mean you should ignore the threat. Every situation is different, and no honest person can guarantee what a blackmailer will do. Blocking them, threatening them, or suddenly disappearing may cause them to become more aggressive.
Paying is not a guarantee of safety either. A payment often proves that fear is working and can lead to another demand.
This is why I stall. Stalling keeps communication open, creates time, and prevents panic from controlling the next decision. If I take over as you, I deal with the blackmailer directly while you step away from the threats.
If you are facing an active threat and need to understand the larger process, visit my Blackmail Help page.
Step One: Do Not Pay
Do not send money.
Tell the blackmailer you need a few days to get it.
Do not take screenshots of your account or provide proof of your finances.
Once they believe payment may