People contact me because they want to end a relationship and don’t know what to do next.
Sometimes they have made the decision.
Sometimes they haven’t.
Sometimes they just need to understand their options.
Who can help me end a relationship?
My name is Frank Ahearn.
I help people figure out what comes next.
Sometimes You Need Someone Outside the Situation
Relationships can get complicated.
There can be history, money, family, secrets, fear, privacy and years of emotions mixed together.
When you’re standing in the middle of it, your options aren’t always obvious.
That’s where another perspective can help.
I’m not a therapist.
I’m not going to tell you whether you should stay or leave.
I listen to what is happening, what you’re worried about and what you want your life to look like afterward.
Then we talk about options.
You Have Options
Maybe you want to end the relationship and stay where you are.
Maybe you want distance.
Maybe you want more privacy.
Maybe you’re thinking about moving.
Maybe you want to start over completely.
There isn’t one answer for everyone.
Who Can Help Me Start My Life Over? Frank Helps People Start Again
If privacy and relocation are part of what you’re considering:
Who Can Help Me Move Away and Start Over? Frank Helps People Relocate Privately
Frank Helps People Get Out
I’ve spent decades solving difficult personal problems.
Sometimes what a person needs most at the beginning isn’t a complicated plan.
They need to know there are choices.
Tell me what’s happening.
Tell me what worries you.
Tell me what you want life to look like when this is over.
Then we figure out what options make sense.
You don’t have to know the answer before you call.
Frank helps people get out.
Sometimes Reading Helps You Think
I’ve written books about privacy, relationships, online deception, blackmail and starting over. Depending on what brought you here, one may help you look at the situation differently.
The Romance Detective: How to Tell If He’s a Jerk, Creep, Scammer — or Married
Sometimes the question isn’t how to end the relationship. It’s whether the relationship was ever what you thought it was.
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The Online Dating Journal
When emotions are involved, writing things down can make what you’ve been overlooking much easier to see.
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Blackmail Survival Manual: 10 Rules Before You Pay or Panic
If ending the relationship has turned into threats, pressure or fear of exposure, slow down before panic decides what you do next.
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Blackmail Survival for Married Women: Immediate Steps to Stop the Threat
For married women dealing with a private relationship or situation that has become a threat.
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How to Disappear: A Pocket Guide to Thinking, Planning, and Staying Gone
Sometimes ending one part of your life makes you start thinking seriously about what you want the next part to look like.
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You don’t need to have everything figured out. Sometimes you just need to know what your options are.