How to stop blackmail begins with a comprehensive blackmail strategy, whether a case of person-to-person extortion, in which you have had some physical relationship with the individual, or a sextortion case, which is digital and occurs on social sites and dating apps.
The key to both is changing what the aggressor knows about you when possible. My ability to create disinformation and feed it to them during the scam is essential to protecting your identity in the future. Disinformation includes contact information, employment information, deviated spelling of your name, a different home city, and the same for your spouse.
In all cases, we transfer the predator to my phone or app contact. It is not uncommon for victims to change communication methods, so they will still assume they are texting with you. You walk away and leave it in my hands.
The tactic is to stall all payment demands, promise to pay, break the promise, and promise again. The idea is to blow the steam out of the scam. When I stall and create excuses as to why I cannot pay at that time, the only tool the predator has is to threaten again. They have a choice: expose and get nothing, or wait. Most choose to give time because it is about money, not destroying you. Some cases are not about money; I design the tactic for that individual.
Extortion has a limited shelf life because it involves a loop of money demands and stalling. Most blackmailers do not know how to get money and ultimately walk away because the situation becomes futile and no cash is coming their way.
Ending a secret relationship is always about planning the exit. We discuss what the predator can use against you. Is it possible to combat some data with disinformation? What is most important is identifying their wants. Is it a payoff, emotional, anger, etc.? From there, I create the exit plan to ease the blow. If you are past the exit discussion and someone is extorting you, I can still help.
I have taken over and ended countless relationships by stepping in and posing as my client, whether it was a sugar daddy arrangement, ending a marriage, or dealing with an ex. I can convince the most paranoid, devious, and smart target that I am the victim; more importantly, I can control the direction and move it to a successful end, where my client walks away unscathed.
If you need help, I can help you.
Ending secret relationships begins with planning the exit. Such connections stem from sugar daddy arrangements, extramarital affairs, long-term escort meetings, and secret bi-lifestyles. These are discreet parts of a person's life that, if they rise to the surface, can cause serious and irreparable damage.
If you approach the termination of the relationship incorrectly, it can escalate into sugar daddy blackmail, Grindr blackmail, become highly emotional, or, in the extreme, be volatile. The danger lies in your home and employment proximity, where the adversary can appear anywhere. I prevent that from happening and my special ending unwanted, volatile, and dangerous relationships and connections. I diffuse the threats, protect your identity, prevent exposure, and ultimately remove the person from your life.
The internet has made it easy to live in two worlds: the regular, everyday world and the secret world. Those who exist in a secret bi-relationship can get caught in a Grindr extortion scam; sometimes, they are digital, and other times, they are actual physical relationships.
Ending bi-physical relationships can be precarious, especially if you contribute financially. The person you are involved with might ask for a large payday, and if you pay, you will become their cash machine when in need.
The digital creeps prey on secret lifestyles because they know it can destroy the victim if family, friends, or employers discover it. They also know that victims will go to any length to prevent exposure. I can tell you that these scams are also terrifying because these predators enjoy terrorizing victims.
When you enter a secret relationship, like an extramarital affair, you never consider how it will end. Unbeknownst to you, it can evolve into love or a dangerous obsession. When you approach the partner and talk of shutting it down, it can go from bad to worse in sixty seconds. People can drastically change when facing the end of a relationship, whether emotional or financial.
The challenge is these individuals do not usually want money but you (forever) or a pound of flesh. The tactic I embrace is maintaining communications, allowing them to vent, and diffusing all threats. In time, I can back the person down and remove them from your life.
Do note that there is always the possibility it turns into stalking, which I can resolve. Either way, if you want to know how to end an unwanted affair, I can help.
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